DayLeigh Dose of My Life

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Is separation really that bad???

So all around me I'm witnessing separation. Whether it be between two once passionate lovers, employer, friends, a married couple or mother from child, it's happening. As human beings we find it comforting to believe everyone we encounter is meant to stay forever, when really that's not the case by far. People are meant to come into your life to help you grow, teach you a thing or two, whatever but most importantly simple to play a role. Now looking at Hollywood for example, when a actress/actor plays a role, they don't play that role forever do they? No. After the rap-up they go on to find a new role to play. Yes they may have loved that role but the movie couldn't go on forever now could it... So why is it so hard for us to grasp this concept when it pertains to real life? I mean over the years most of us grow into new people, with new ideas, views, as a result of life experiences. It's virtually impossible to look at situations the same way you did five years ago. Unfortunately not everyone can say this. We don't all develop at the same rate. Someone can be stuck in the same place,never advancing pass one's present level. Hence the cause of separation. If I'm continuing to blossom into a well seasoned young woman and you stuck in a child-like state how will we relate? We can't, it's impossible. Now that doesn't disregard what was shared, it simply means you're on two different paths. Two which run parallel to one another. In my opinion separation is a great thing. It allows people to grow on their own. A time focus on what you think as an individual, not a pair. It's nothing like truly knowing who you are but when you have those people in your life you lean on like a crutch, you never truly know who you are. You've never lived outside your tiny box. Expand that forth quadrant and get to know and love you. Embrace separation. You never know, it could be the best thing to ever happen for you.

Saturday, February 19, 2011

BoomPowWow

A beautiful Nightmare

On the other side of the mirror, my world is RED...

Go Create

An Asaad Creation... Perfection

Sweet Lips

As I taste the cream on the tip of your tongue... I melt

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Stream of thoughts

Today is sort of bitter sweet. I've been having some guy issue's. The problem with us is that he tends to get really upset and stuck on small things. Now I try to look at the bigger picture of things, take myself out the situation if you will and examine that thing from another angle. With him not so much. In a relationship I know that sometimes you'll fight, disagree, and all that but what keeps people together is the ability to compromise. Right? I feel like if both of you are willing to share whats wrong, establish new boundaries and try to abide by them, then you'll be alright. I mean I just think if a couple is constantly at wits about small things, then how will you be able to withstand the real problems that WILL arise? Idk these are things I try to talk to him about but he just doesn't get... But I knew you guys would. But on a lighter note, today I leave for my first conference. I'll be headed to Indianapolis for the next four days! I'm super excited and a bit nervous I guess. Not doubting my abilities or anything I guess its just those uncharted territory nerves... I'll keep you posted on when I touch down and how it went... Lata Dayleigh Dosers

Monday, February 7, 2011

This pain is so sweet

I'm a total control freak... If I didn't say so bitch it better not happen lol. So whenever I've been hurt like really hurt (which doesn't that doesn't happen often) I run to my tat man... The self inflicted pain makes what just happened to me seem so small and insignificant... Like one pain drowns out the other... Sounds crazy but it works for me